I read a quote written by the great Greek philosopher Aristotle.
Althought I love the one that reads, "One swallow does not make Spring."
Having visited the mission of San Juan Capistrano and the swallows
it makes a lot of sense to me now.
That beautiful Spanish mission is located in the Anaheim-Irvine area
of Orange County California twenty or so miles southeast of Santa Ana.
That quote took me back to my old DLIFLC military days.
But the quote I read this morning was on criticism.
Aristotle was Plato's student and went on to become a teacher
of Alexander the Great.
His writings covered many subjects from physics, to poetry, and theater to music,
and politics, government, ethics, even biology and zoology.
He wrote,"Criticism is something you can easily avoid by saying nothing,
doing nothing and being nothing."
We'd all have to be statues to be able to avoid it all, but come to think about it..
even these structures have pigeons dropping stuff on them.
At the end of the day one has to realize that criticism will not always
be delivered at an opportune time, and may not come gently.
Even if it is from someone legitimately doing their best to help us
or the situation.
If we were to take the approach that the feedback (we are receiving
no matter how unsolicited it is), came from someone trying to teach
us something, maybe we would be able to process it faster.
At the end of the day how we reach that level and internalize it;
will deliver the best outcome, because aren't reacting to it negatively.
So let's learn from it, and as soon as we are finished processing it,
let's make sure to let go of it, and keep moving.
Make it a great día!