Thursday, October 27, 2011

Turn off their power.
















Have you ever asked yourself why some of us allow others to press

our buttons?

Some of us actually go through life allowing others to make us feel

one way or another.

Allowing others to make us "feel" one way or the other.

Letting others predispose how we react to a certain situation.

We give others permission to dictate how we will react and or feel.

When we take this approach, we also tend to blame others when

things don’t go our way.

When we take this approach we are quick to blame others for our

negative personal feelings.

We end up being reactive.

We don't grow, or learn.

Because we find it easier to blame others, rather than work

to address the hurt and deal with our issues. 

For typically what we are feeling, are our issues.

The great thing is that we all have a choice about how we feel about

any given situation.

How we will respond and or how we will feel about its outcome.

Next time, ask yourself, Why am I giving this person so much power? 

No one should ever have the ability to turn us "On" or "OFF",

unless we give them the power to.

Make it a great día!